You were looking for that one hidden garden where all the
girlfriends are hiding. You know, the paradise island with fantastically
attractive well-behaved women waiting for their dream guy to show up in
their sailing boat to take them away
But I don't blame you, I used to be on a quest to exactly the same place, however, I didn't manage to find it...
In fact, I was just trying to find the matching piece of the puzzle, like I was incomplete...
And I would hazard to suggest that by asking the question: "how to find a girlfriend" that you are in exactly the same position. You feel your life would be significantly more enjoyable or even "complete" with the addition of a mildly attractive female?
However, I am here to tell you that you are most likely trying to fill the void inside of yourself with the nectar extracted from the image you have of this one great female.
To make it worse, all of the songs they sing on the radio trick you to think that the bullseye is right there, in the heart/legs of your supposed "true love".
"Nevermind, I'll find someone like you" - Adele, from her bestselling single "Someone Like You"
Yes people are made to fit into each-others holes quite well...
But before you put it into someones else hole you need to find your own WHOLE.
So, with this in mind, the one place you should be looking when asking how to find a girlfriend is...
Within YOURSELF
If you enter into a relationship with this same famine mentality, then yeah, it's great at first. Like a heroin addict juicing right into the blasting sore on his arm... yet it is just the cycle that produces more hunger.
Yes, what I am trying to say is that you cannot find the answer to the question "how to find a girlfriend", without (running the risk of becoming to philosophical) first finding yourself.
Before entering into a relationship with another person, you must be completely happy with being alone.
Yes, and the problem being that there is no quick fix, $29.99 product for this issue. You have to read, play, run, socialise and work your way to happiness and fulfilment that is not tied to the actions of a person of the opposite sex.
You need to build a life that you are excited to wake up to, that includes activities, foods, work, people, places that you love. Your life must be filled full of things that provide a much greater alternative to "finding a girlfriend".
And what's funny is that once you do achieve this and do fine whole, aren't that bothered about the "how to find a girlfriend" question anymore.
It's a paradox, just like eating before you go to the grocery store, the shopping trip is much less exciting.
But I don't blame you, I used to be on a quest to exactly the same place, however, I didn't manage to find it...
In fact, I was just trying to find the matching piece of the puzzle, like I was incomplete...
And I would hazard to suggest that by asking the question: "how to find a girlfriend" that you are in exactly the same position. You feel your life would be significantly more enjoyable or even "complete" with the addition of a mildly attractive female?
However, I am here to tell you that you are most likely trying to fill the void inside of yourself with the nectar extracted from the image you have of this one great female.
To make it worse, all of the songs they sing on the radio trick you to think that the bullseye is right there, in the heart/legs of your supposed "true love".
"Nevermind, I'll find someone like you" - Adele, from her bestselling single "Someone Like You"
Yes people are made to fit into each-others holes quite well...
But before you put it into someones else hole you need to find your own WHOLE.
So, with this in mind, the one place you should be looking when asking how to find a girlfriend is...
Within YOURSELF
If you enter into a relationship with this same famine mentality, then yeah, it's great at first. Like a heroin addict juicing right into the blasting sore on his arm... yet it is just the cycle that produces more hunger.
Yes, what I am trying to say is that you cannot find the answer to the question "how to find a girlfriend", without (running the risk of becoming to philosophical) first finding yourself.
Before entering into a relationship with another person, you must be completely happy with being alone.
Yes, and the problem being that there is no quick fix, $29.99 product for this issue. You have to read, play, run, socialise and work your way to happiness and fulfilment that is not tied to the actions of a person of the opposite sex.
You need to build a life that you are excited to wake up to, that includes activities, foods, work, people, places that you love. Your life must be filled full of things that provide a much greater alternative to "finding a girlfriend".
And what's funny is that once you do achieve this and do fine whole, aren't that bothered about the "how to find a girlfriend" question anymore.
It's a paradox, just like eating before you go to the grocery store, the shopping trip is much less exciting.
Now we understand that you need to look inside to eventually find
the perfect girlfriend, you can use The Girlfriend Funnel to speed up
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Dave Smith is the owner of http://www.GirlfriendFunnel.com where he teaches guys how to find awesome girlfriends without setting foot into a nightclub.
Dave Smith is the owner of http://www.GirlfriendFunnel.com where he teaches guys how to find awesome girlfriends without setting foot into a nightclub.
