You just met a girl, you had a lot of fun with her, and you
actually got her telephone number... Now what? You are thinking
continually in your head is what to text her. Maybe you actually start
texting; then think to yourself that it is not good enough then started
deleting it.
There are lots of things you have to bear in mind before sending that 1st text. First of all, you ought to keep in mind that the text you sent assist in a continuous conversation. You have previously met each other, so you really should try to keep on that conversation. Here are examples of 1st text to send a girl after you have first met her:
1. "Do you know what? You are truly the 1st girl I have met that is not stalking me with text messages after 1 day already. However, this usually falls for bad girls simply because I am so-so sweet and innocent..."
Rather than directly letting girls know you're a bad guy by making a vulgar comment, you are indirectly letting her realize by over-emphasizing you are Mr. Perfect so, it's unbelievable.
2. "OK, let's imagine for a second that you are a guy and I'm a cool girl just like you. What will you do to try and pick me up?"
This example works similarly as the previous one, the difference is that after she admits what she will use on you? You tease her by then applying it on her and questioning if it worked.
3. Seriously? I like you. You're so much fun to be around and you're quite attractive too, so let's go someplace together!"
4. "Hey you. Are you ready to keep a secret?"
Obviously if you text a girl this way she will be eager and reply "YES" and ask why, and then you'll say:
"Don't tell anybody, but I met this incredibly cute girl the other day. Her name is NAME OF THE GIRL YOU ARE TEXTING. Do you know anyone with that name??"
5. Uh hello... you? Who is this again? I saw this number on my phone but I do not know who owns it!"
6. Hey (Girl's name), it's (your own name).
(Store this number, it's the most essential one you will ever get:- )
You tell her your own name, however there's a chance she will laugh or smile when she gets the text.
7. Are you by yourself there? This question is meant to find out if she is alone in her home. You definitely can't flirt, tease or talk cute if her mates or close friends are with her. Text something courageous like "I wish I can be with you over there"
8. What are you doing now? Play it perfect and slow. This could help you to be assured that she's alone and bored enough to give her full attention.
9. "Hey (HER NAME), Let's do something tomorrow. What do you say?" or "Hey (HER NAME), what are you doing now? Do you want to meet somewhere?"
10. "How many guys stopped you today and asked you for your phone number? If u say more than 15, I will know you are lying. I am just teasing you."
There are lots of things you have to bear in mind before sending that 1st text. First of all, you ought to keep in mind that the text you sent assist in a continuous conversation. You have previously met each other, so you really should try to keep on that conversation. Here are examples of 1st text to send a girl after you have first met her:
1. "Do you know what? You are truly the 1st girl I have met that is not stalking me with text messages after 1 day already. However, this usually falls for bad girls simply because I am so-so sweet and innocent..."
Rather than directly letting girls know you're a bad guy by making a vulgar comment, you are indirectly letting her realize by over-emphasizing you are Mr. Perfect so, it's unbelievable.
2. "OK, let's imagine for a second that you are a guy and I'm a cool girl just like you. What will you do to try and pick me up?"
This example works similarly as the previous one, the difference is that after she admits what she will use on you? You tease her by then applying it on her and questioning if it worked.
3. Seriously? I like you. You're so much fun to be around and you're quite attractive too, so let's go someplace together!"
4. "Hey you. Are you ready to keep a secret?"
Obviously if you text a girl this way she will be eager and reply "YES" and ask why, and then you'll say:
"Don't tell anybody, but I met this incredibly cute girl the other day. Her name is NAME OF THE GIRL YOU ARE TEXTING. Do you know anyone with that name??"
5. Uh hello... you? Who is this again? I saw this number on my phone but I do not know who owns it!"
6. Hey (Girl's name), it's (your own name).
(Store this number, it's the most essential one you will ever get:- )
You tell her your own name, however there's a chance she will laugh or smile when she gets the text.
7. Are you by yourself there? This question is meant to find out if she is alone in her home. You definitely can't flirt, tease or talk cute if her mates or close friends are with her. Text something courageous like "I wish I can be with you over there"
8. What are you doing now? Play it perfect and slow. This could help you to be assured that she's alone and bored enough to give her full attention.
9. "Hey (HER NAME), Let's do something tomorrow. What do you say?" or "Hey (HER NAME), what are you doing now? Do you want to meet somewhere?"
10. "How many guys stopped you today and asked you for your phone number? If u say more than 15, I will know you are lying. I am just teasing you."
J Axelson
American fully-retired in Thailand
Married to a beautiful Thai lady (Mae)
Have much time to help those newbies in the world of SMS communicating with girls/ladies/women.
http://www.howtostarttextingagirl.com for more information.
American fully-retired in Thailand
Married to a beautiful Thai lady (Mae)
Have much time to help those newbies in the world of SMS communicating with girls/ladies/women.
http://www.howtostarttextingagirl.com for more information.
